What we’re about
Are you in your 20s or 30s and wondering how to navigate the modern dating scene? Tired of dating apps? Frustrated with getting ghosted? Want to meet people in real life instead of endlessly swiping? Are you single, divorced, or open to meeting someone special in a fun and natural way?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Date RVA is a social group designed to help young adults meet potential partners through engaging, low-pressure events. From casual meetups and group activities to unique dating experiences, our events provide the perfect opportunity to connect with like-minded singles in a relaxed environment.
Trying to Date RVA is an affiliate of Trying to Adult RVA, a community focused on helping young adults navigate various aspects of adult life. While Trying to Adult RVA emphasizes friendship and social connections, Trying to Date RVA takes it a step further by providing opportunities specifically for dating and building romantic connections. Together, these groups create a supportive environment for individuals looking to expand their social circles and find meaningful relationships.
Please review our rules and policies regarding participation, attendance, refunds, and social media.
Visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more.
For additional details, check out our website and start your journey to making meaningful connections today!
Upcoming events
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Curated Connections
Jolene Family Winery, 2750 Pocahontas Trail, Quinton, VA, USDating can feel exhausting when everything is left to chance. This event was created for people who want something more thoughtful, more curated, and more intentional. Instead of navigating a crowded room hoping to meet the right person, this elevated dating experience is designed to put you in front of connections that actually make sense for you.
This is not your average singles event. About a week before the event, you will receive a short questionnaire that helps us thoughtfully curate potential matches for you. We take your responses seriously and use them to create pairings that go beyond surface level compatibility. The goal is simple: to create meaningful conversations with people you are genuinely aligned with.
We will be gathering at Jolene Winery, a stunning setting that sets the tone for connection. Sip exceptional wine, enjoy the relaxed yet refined atmosphere, and meet Richmond singles who are also showing up with intention.
Dress to impress in a polished, put-together look. Think elevated and stylish while still being comfortable enough to relax and connect.
If you are ready for a dating experience that feels intentional, curated, and designed with real potential in mind, this event was created for you.
Price to join this event is $20. Sign up for membership and receive discounted and free events. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Date RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: there is a parking lot!16 attendees
Monthly Singles Mixer
Starr Hill Beer Hall & Rooftop, 3406 W. Leigh, Richmond, VA, USLooking to meet someone new without the apps or awkward small talk? Join us for the Trying to Date RVA Monthly Singles Mixer, A casual night out where everyone in the room is single and ready to mingle. No timed rounds, no pressure, just relaxed vibes, new faces, and real connections.
✨ Pricing:
- Free for Premium Members
- $5 for Members
- $10 for Everyone Else
- Separate tickets available for both men and women — this is a hetero-focused event and we do our best to keep the crowd balanced for better connections!
💖 Why date with Trying to Date RVA?
Because meeting people shouldn’t feel like work. We make dating fun, bringing together Richmond’s most intentional singles in real life.
Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Date RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: limited street parking in the area. Please allow extra time to find a spot or use ride share services!4 attendees
Perfect Pairings
Richmond Olive Oil Company, 3545 W Cary St, Richmond, VA, USCelebrate Valentine’s week with a night full of flavor, fun, and fresh connections! 🍓✨
At Perfect Pairings, every guy will receive a sample of one of Richmond Olive Oil Co’s signature olive oil flavors, and every girl will receive a sample of a unique balsamic vinegar flavor.
Your mission?
Mingle, taste, and see whose flavors blend into a perfect match—both in flavor and in chemistry.
As you mix and meet new people, you’ll test your samples together to discover which olive oils and balsamics make the most irresistible combinations. And if you find a pairing that’s absolutely delicious (or a pairing you want to keep exploring 👀), you can take it home! Richmond Olive Oil Co will offer an exclusive one-night-only discount on bottles of the perfect pairs.
We’ll have equal numbers of guys and girls, a fun guided mixer structure, and plenty of opportunities for sparks to fly.
Whether you leave with a new favorite flavor, a new connection, or both—you’re in for a sweet night leading into Valentine’s Day. ❤️
Spots are limited, so snag your ticket and come find your Perfect Pair!
Price to join this event is $15. Sign up for membership and receive discounted and free events. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: small parking lot on site and near by street parking!7 attendees
Charmed at Amar Lounge
Amar Lounge, 2229 W Main St, Richmond, VA, USYou are cordially invited to Charmed, an exclusive dating experience hosted at the sophisticated and intimate Amar Lounge. This thoughtfully curated evening is designed to facilitate meaningful connections through structured, timed rounds of interaction.
Upon arrival, ladies will be presented with an empty bracelet, while gentlemen will receive a sachet of charms. Through the timed rounds, ladies will build their bracelets by connecting with eligible bachelors, with each charm serving as a symbolic beginning of a conversation and potential connection. Charms are just the start—this event is designed to encourage genuine engagement and meaningful interaction.
The ambiance of Amar Lounge calls for elevated attire. Ladies are encouraged to wear a tasteful cocktail dress, tailored jumpsuit, or elegant blouse with dress pants. Gentlemen should consider a crisp button-down with tailored slacks or a blazer with dark trousers. Cocktail attire is requested, refined yet approachable.
Interspersed between the rounds of interaction will be opportunities to enjoy the full bar, featuring an assortment of craft cocktails and refreshments, providing moments to pause, refresh, and appreciate the evening’s surroundings.
Charmed at Amar Lounge offers a sophisticated setting to engage with other singles, cultivate connections, and experience an evening of elegance and distinction.
Price to join this event is $20. Sign up for membership and receive discounted and free events. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Date RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: street parking in the area. Please allow extra time to find a spot or use ride share services. Amar Lounge is upstairs Mimi's.2 attendees
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