
About us
This group is here to support you in healing, growing, and building lasting, secure, and healthy relationships.
I’m Diliya, Relationship Therapeutic Coach, founder of The Raw Academy™. I created this space because I’m deeply passionate about helping people understand why they love the way they do — and how past wounds, attachment dynamics, emotional conditioning, and protective behaviours can shape the way they connect, communicate, and relate.
At The Raw Academy™, I use my Love Blueprint™ framework to help you explore the deeper layers of your relationship patterns. It is not a diagnosis, but a reflective way to understand what you may have learned through past experiences, family dynamics, unmet needs, conflict cycles, and the ways you’ve adapted to feel safe in love.
A gentle place to begin is with the free Love Blueprint™ Self-Discovery Tool. This reflective tool is designed to help you start recognising the patterns that may be shaping your life and relationships. It takes roughly 10 minutes!
💌 Click here to take the self-discovery tool and get your personalised insight report.
Whether you're single, dating, partnered, married, healing from a breakup, navigating a situationship, or simply trying to understand yourself better in relationships, this space is for you.
Each month, I host free, interactive webinars where we explore topics such as attachment patterns, trauma responses, emotional safety, boundaries, communication, conflict, self-worth, and the unconscious patterns that often shape our love lives.
This group is for you if you want to:
- understand your relationship patterns more clearly
- break free from old cycles that no longer serve you
- build emotional safety within yourself and your relationships
- communicate with more clarity and compassion
- heal past wounds that still shape how you show up in love
- create healthier, more secure and fulfilling connections
By joining, you’ll gain insight, support, education, and reflective tools to help you understand your personal Love Blueprint and begin creating a healthier version of love — with yourself and with others.
No matter where you are on your journey, you’re welcome here, just as you are.
This is a warm, reflective, and growth-focused space for anyone who wants to heal old patterns, build deeper self-awareness, and create secure, healthy relationships.
I can’t wait to see you inside!
Upcoming events
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Set Healthy Boundaries with Clarity, Confidence & Compassion
·OnlineOnlinePart 4 of the Love Blueprint Webinar Series (please read below)
Do you say yes when you mean no?
Struggle to ask for space or express your needs without guilt?
Feel responsible for other people’s emotions—or afraid that speaking up will lead to conflict, rejection, or disconnection?
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. So many of us were never taught how to set boundaries—only how to stay small, agreeable, or over-give to keep the peace.
About the Love Blueprint Webinar Series
The Love Blueprint Series is a 6-part psycho-educational journey designed to help you understand how early experiences shape your trauma responses, attachment patterns, emotional regulation, communication, and relationship dynamics. Each session builds gently on the last — offering clarity before integration and insight before change — so you can begin relating to yourself and others with greater awareness, safety, and choice.⭐️ Before the webinar, you’re welcome to complete the free 🔗 Love Blueprint™ Self-Discovery Tool here. It takes roughly 10 minutes -- and will help you start noticing the deeper patterns that may be influencing your relationships, so the webinar feels more personal and relevant to you.
This webinar is for you if:
- You feel drained, responsible for others’ emotions, or resentful after saying yes
- You avoid conflict by people-pleasing, fawning, or staying silent
- You want to speak up without guilt, fear, or shutting down
- You’re craving connection and the safety to honor your own needs
You'll learn:
- What healthy boundaries really are—and what they’re not
- Why setting them feels so hard (and how to make it easier)
- How your past may be shaping the way you protect (or abandon) yourself
- The 3 key principles to speak up with confidence and care
How to join:
To receive your unique joining link, please register below too:
https://zoom.us/meeting/register/bHr_TZgaQ_24vqnHndps3AOnce registered, you'll receive:
- Webinar replay access and private reflection space
- Receive practical tips and healing resources through the newsletter
NOTE: Please log in at least 5 minutes earlier to get settled. Mics and cameras are to remain off to ensure everyone's safety.
What you’ll need:
- A quiet space
- Notebook + pen for notes
- A stable internet connection
- Curiosity and openness to learn
See you soon,
Diliya (Therapeutic Coach)
Founder of The Raw Academy™618 attendees
From Judgment to Self-Acceptance: Understanding the Inner Critic
·OnlineOnlinePart 5 of the Love Blueprint Webinar Series (please read below)
Do you have an inner voice that constantly judges, criticises, or pressures you — even when you’re doing your best?
That inner critic isn’t random. It’s shaped over time by past experiences, expectations, and the ways we learned to protect ourselves emotionally. While judgment may feel motivating, it often creates stress, self-doubt, and disconnection rather than real growth.
In this live webinar, we’ll explore why self-judgment shows up, what it’s really pointing to beneath the surface, and how to relate to that inner voice differently — without losing your standards or desire to grow.
About the Love Blueprint Webinar Series
The Love Blueprint Series is a 6-part psycho-educational journey designed to help you understand how early experiences shape your trauma responses, attachment patterns, emotional regulation, communication, and relationship dynamics. Each session builds gently on the last — offering clarity before integration and insight before change — so you can begin relating to yourself and others with greater awareness, safety, and choice.⭐️ Before the webinar, you’re welcome to complete the free 🔗 Love Blueprint™ Self-Discovery Tool here. It takes roughly 10 minutes -- and will help you start noticing the deeper patterns that may be influencing your relationships, so the webinar feels more personal and relevant to you.
This session is especially helpful if you:
- Struggle with self-criticism, comparison, or inner pressure
- Want to grow and improve without being hard on yourself
- Notice judgment affecting your confidence, relationships, or emotional wellbeing
- Are curious about the psychology behind the inner critic
What we'll explore together:
- Why judgment is often rooted in emotional pain rather than truth
- How the inner critic develops over time
- What self-judgment can reveal about unmet emotional needs
- The difference between harsh judgment and healthy discernment
- How self-acceptance supports sustainable personal growth
This is a reflective, insight-based session designed to increase self-awareness, emotional clarity, and self-trust. It’s educational in nature and suitable whether you’re new to this work or already on a personal growth journey.
How to join:
To receive your unique joining link, please register below too:
https://zoom.us/meeting/register/janahlAORoytQgudveFqTwOnce registered, you'll receive:
- 7-day webinar replay access and private reflection space
- Receive practical tips and healing resources through the newsletter
NOTE: Please log in at least 5 minutes earlier to get settled. Mics and cameras are to remain off to ensure everyone's safety.
What you’ll need:
- A quiet space
- Notebook + pen for notes
- A stable internet connection
- Curiosity and openness to learn
See you soon,
Diliya
Therapeutic Coach
Founder of The Raw Academy™256 attendees
The Psychology of Communication in Relationships
·OnlineOnlinePart 6 of the Love Blueprint Series (please read below)
Have you ever left a conversation feeling misunderstood, unheard, or disconnected — even when your intentions were good?
Communication is rarely just about words. It’s shaped by emotional safety, past experiences, and the internal patterns we carry into connection. When these layers remain unseen, conversations can quickly shift into defensiveness, withdrawal, or conflict.
In this final session of the Love Blueprint Series, we explore how your Love Blueprint shows up in real-time communication — not through techniques or scripts, but through understanding, awareness, and presence.
About the Love Blueprint Webinar Series
The Love Blueprint Series is a 6-part psycho-educational journey designed to help you understand how early experiences shape your trauma responses, attachment patterns, emotional regulation, communication, and relationship dynamics. Each session builds gently on the last — offering clarity before integration and insight before change — so you can begin relating to yourself and others with greater awareness, safety, and choice.⭐️ Before the webinar, you’re welcome to complete the free 🔗 Love Blueprint™ Self-Discovery Tool here. It takes roughly 10 minutes -- and will help you start noticing the deeper patterns that may be influencing your relationships, so the webinar feels more personal and relevant to you.
This session is for you if you:
- Feel misunderstood or struggle to express yourself clearly
- Notice yourself shutting down, over-reacting, or people-pleasing
- Want deeper connection without scripts or surface-level advice
- Are ready to understand communication from the inside out
In this session, we'll explore:
- Why communication breaks down even when intentions are good
- How emotional states influence the way we speak and listen
- What happens internally when we feel misunderstood or unheard
- The difference between hearing words and being emotionally present
- Why conflict often signals unmet needs rather than failure
This closing session brings together the core themes of the Love Blueprint — offering clarity on how your inner world shapes your relational experiences, especially in moments that matter most.
Rather than focusing on “how to communicate better,” this webinar invites you to slow down, notice, and understand — creating the foundation for more conscious, authentic connection.
How To Join:
To receive your unique joining link, please register below too:
https://zoom.us/meeting/register/84iUwebbR4eJYjPJBB1xzw
Once registered, you'll receive:- 7-day webinar replay access and private reflection space
- Receive practical tips and healing resources through the newsletter
Note: Please log in at least 5 minutes earlier to get settled. Mics and cameras are to remain off to ensure everyone's safety.
What you’ll need:
- A quiet space
- Notebook + pen for notes
- A stable internet connection
- Curiosity and openness to learn
See you soon,
Diliya
Therapeutic Coach
Founder of The Raw Academy™136 attendees- €55.00

Love Blueprint™ Live Workshop: Break Relationship Patterns & Build Secure Love
·OnlineOnlineA live online relationship psychology workshop exploring attachment patterns, trauma responses, communication, conflict and emotional safety.
Final live workshop | Exclusive Meetup member price: €55 instead of €97
⚠️ Important: Please read all sections below before registering.
Do you keep experiencing the same relationship patterns, even when the person or situation changes?
Perhaps you become anxious when someone pulls away, withdraw when emotions feel overwhelming, struggle to express your needs, overgive to maintain connection or find yourself caught in recurring communication and conflict cycles.
You may already understand some of these patterns intellectually. You may even recognise your attachment style, trauma responses or communication habits.
But having the language for a pattern is not always enough to change it.
The Love Blueprint™ Workshop will help you understand how your early experiences, core beliefs, emotional protection strategies and relationship patterns connect within your own life.
If you have attended some or all of the Love Blueprint™ Webinar Series, this workshop is your opportunity to take the next step—from learning about relationship psychology to personally mapping the patterns shaping how you love, protect yourself, communicate and respond when connection feels uncertain.
⚠️ You do not need to have completed the webinar series to attend.
WHAT'S YOUR LOVE BLUEPRINT?
Your Love Blueprint™ is the internal map shaping how you experience love, trust, closeness, emotional safety, communication and conflict.
It develops through your early experiences, core beliefs, attachment patterns and protective responses.This workshop will help you understand how these influences connect, where your recurring patterns may come from and what you want to change as you build healthier, more secure relationships.
HOW IS THIS DIFFERENT FROM THE WEBINAR SERIES?
The webinar series provides the psycho-educational foundation behind attachment, trauma responses, boundaries, self-acceptance, communication and conflict.The workshop helps you bring those pieces together and apply them personally to your own relationships.
You will begin mapping your reactive relationship cycle, understanding how your patterns connect and identifying what needs to shift as you develop your Love Blueprint™ 2.0.
The webinar series builds awareness. The workshop helps you personalise, integrate and begin practising change.
👉🏽 This workshop may be for you if:
- Keep repeating similar relationship patterns
- Feel anxious when someone becomes distant or inconsistent
- Withdraw, shut down or become defensive during difficult conversations
- Overthink messages, conversations or changes in someone’s behaviour
- Struggle to communicate your feelings and needs clearly
- People-please, overgive or abandon your own needs
- Experience anxious–avoidant or push–pull relationship dynamics
- Understand your patterns but still feel unable to change them
- Want to build secure, healthy and emotionally connected relationships
You are welcome whether you are single, dating, in a relationship, healing after a breakup or reflecting on a past relationship.
👉🏽 Inside the workshop, we'll explore:
- The early experiences and messages that shaped your relationship patterns
- The hidden narratives and core beliefs you may carry about yourself, others and love
- How anxious, avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment patterns affect connection
- How trauma responses and emotional protection strategies appear in relationships
- The deeper meanings underneath rejection, distance, criticism and conflict
- How your relationship, communication and conflict patterns developed
- How to recognise and interrupt automatic relational reactions
- What a healthier and more secure Love Blueprint™ could look like for you
This is not about blaming your childhood, labelling yourself or trying to change everything within three hours.
It is about understanding your patterns with greater clarity, compassion and personal responsibility, so they no longer unconsciously direct your relationships and life.
👉🏽 By the end of the workshop, you will have:
- A clearer map of your personal Love Blueprint™
- Greater understanding of what activates your reactive relationship cycle
- Insight into why you pursue, withdraw, shut down, overgive or become defensive
- A clearer connection between the layers of your love blueprint
- Greater ability to recognise your pattern before it automatically takes over
- Practical ways to pause, regulate and choose a more intentional response
- A clearer understanding of what needs to change and where to begin
- The foundations of your Love Blueprint™ 2.0 — a healthier, more secure and conscious way of relating
The intention is for you to leave with more than information. You will leave with a clearer understanding of your pattern, your relationship cycle, practical tools and next steps towards changing it in real time.
👉🏽 WHAT'S INCLUDED
- A three-hour live and interactive workshop
- Guided reflection, pattern-mapping exercises and live Q&A
- Love Blueprint™ Self-Discovery Tool
- Love Blueprint™ Mapping Workbook
- Your Love Blueprint™ Roadmap
- Access to the private workshop portal
- 90-day access to the live workshop replay
At checkout, you can also add the separate six-part Love Blueprint™ Replay Vault for €7.99 instead of €18.99, with 180-day access to the psycho-educational webinar series.
WORKSHOP DETAILS
Date: Sunday, 30 August 2026
Time: 4:00 pm BST | 5:00 pm CEST | 11:00 am EDT
Duration: Three hours, including two 10-minute breaks
Location: Live online through ZoomYour Zoom link will be provided by email and inside the private workshop portal.
Standard price: €97
Exclusive Meetup member price: €55This will be the final live Love Blueprint™ Workshop offered as part of this seasonal series at the special Meetup member rate.
HOW TO REGISTER AND JOIN
Selecting Attend on Meetup does not reserve your workshop place.Your registration is confirmed only after payment has been completed through the secure Kajabi checkout page using Stripe or PayPal:
🔗 https://www.therawacademy.co/offers/DodkBEo2After completing your payment, you will receive your confirmation and workshop access details by email.
Please check your spam or junk folder if your confirmation or portal login details do not appear in your main inbox.
Places are limited to preserve the reflective and interactive nature of the workshop.
⭐️ Questions or difficulty accessing the private workshop portal? Send me a private message through Meetup or leave a comment below.
Understanding your patterns is the beginning.
The next step is learning how those patterns connect, interrupting the cycle and beginning to create a healthier way of relating.
I look forward to welcoming you inside the workshop!
See you soon,
Diliya (Therapeutic Coach)
Founder of The Raw Academy™1 attendee
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