About us
We're shaking up the Bay Area social scene with Singles Mingle!
We have 4-10 events per month!
Join us at bars, breweries, and restaurants for fun, friendly mixers where you can meet local singles face-to-face—no swiping required.
THIS IS NOT SPEED DATING!
Whether you're looking to connect, make new friends, or just enjoy a great night out, our monthly events are the perfect place to start.
The only requirement to attend a Singles Mingle event is that you are single! 🥂 We welcome everyone, but we also believe in the power of true alignment and connection. To better serve our community, we have launched a dedicated chapter: Singles Mingle LGBTQ+. 🏳️🌈
If you feel that community would be a better fit for your journey, be sure to follow that group for specific events and updates! https://www.meetup.com/singlesminglelgbtq/
🎉 Free all-ages events
$10 age-specific mixers and $20 special events!
📍 Stay in the loop by following us on Meetup, social media, or visiting [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com).
❤️ Donations are appreciated via Pledge on the "About" page or Venmo @Adeline-Farrer. Every dollar helps keep Singles Mingle alive and thriving.
Upcoming events
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Singles Mingle @ Willow Den in San Jose
The Willow Den, 803 Lincoln Ave., San Jose, CA, USWe're going back to Willow Den in San Jose!
🍻 Heads up: Willow Den is definitely a dive bar — loud, gritty, and packed. If that’s your scene, you’ll love it!
🪪 Important: Please bring a physical ID — the venue checks at the door, and digital copies are not accepted.
🚗 Parking tip: Arrive early and you might score a spot behind the bar (the driveway is a little easy to miss). There’s also plenty of nearby street parking.
🍕 Food: No food is served at Willow Den, but outside food is allowed, so feel free to order from DoorDash or grab something nearby!
I’ve hosted 7 singles events at this spot, and it’s always a blast! The owner is awesome, and the staff love having us there.
Think: pool tables, giant Jenga, beer pong, ping pong, live music, and a fun icebreaker game to get everyone mingling!
🎧 DJ or band starts at 10 PM! (I will update you guys once it's confirmed).
This event is totally free — no RSVP or ticket needed, and you’re welcome to bring friends!
Wristband distribution: 7 PM to 10 PM
Event runs until closing (2 AM).Upon arrival you should see me since I'll be standing by the entrance. Look for a Singles Mingle gear! :)
Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Suggested attire: Dress comfortably, but also take the opportunity to show up as your best self! Aim for something that feels good, looks great, and lets you feel confident while mingling—you never know who you might meet!
🚨 Note: This event is advertised on multiple platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect actual attendance. Bring your friends or fly solo!
Can’t wait to see you there! 🎶🥂Disclaimer: The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are not included with the free entry. They are available for purchase.
This event will be on the LOUD side since it's a dive bar. I recommend showing up between 7-9pm to mingle before the music gets turned up!Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [[SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/)](http://singlesmingleca.com/) and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!300 attendeesSingles Mingle @ McGee's in Alameda
McGee's, 1645 Park St, Alameda, CA, USSunday Funday at McGee's! 🍻
We’re heading back to Alameda for a massive Sunday afternoon mingle! Rain or shine, we’re going to have a blast.- When: Sunday March 15th | 3:00 PM – 6:00 PM
- Where: 1645 Park St, Alameda
- Perks: Indoor & outdoor roaming space, tons of food, delicious cocktails, and plenty of free parking!
📍 IMPORTANT: How to Find Us
This venue has two entrances. Please enter through the BACK ENTRANCE. Our group will be set up in the back area—just look for the tables, balloons, and our team in Singles Mingle shirts!- Park in the large lot next to McGee’s.
- Walk toward the back entrance of the building.
- Find the host table to get your wristband and icebreaker!
The Game Plan
- 🎯 Lively Icebreaker Game: A great way to meet people without the awkwardness.
- 🎟 Wristbands: We’ll be handing these out until 6:00 PM so you can easily spot fellow singles.
- 🕒 Note: This is not a private party; the venue remains open to the public, so your wristband is your "ticket" to finding the group!
DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are not included with the free entry. They are available for purchase.Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at SinglesMingleCA.com and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!294 attendees- $20.00
Singles Mingle & Soulmate Quest ~ Book Signing Event @ Concannon in Livermore
Concannon Winery, 4590 Tesla Rd, Livermore, CA 94550, Livermore, CA, USHey all!
We have a very special event coming up in about six weeks, and I’m excited to share the details. We’ll be gathering at a private venue in Livermore — Concannon’s 1883 Room*.*
Singles Mingle is collaborating with SoulMate Quest to celebrate the book release of Jeannine Wolfe, a professional matchmaker who has been helping people find love since 1990 through coaching, seminars, and thoughtful matchmaking based on what you’re truly looking for. I thought it would be a fun and meaningful opportunity to introduce her to our community with a book release party!
The event is $20 to attend, and your ticket includes a free signed copy of the book. Space is limited to 70 guests, so be sure to RSVP early before it fills up!
Book name: "Soulmate Quest: A Matchmakers Guide to Finding Love"You can pay at the door via cash, Zelle, or Venmo, or purchase your ticket on Meetup using PayPal.
If you’d like to be moved to “Going” but prefer to pay at the door, just message me directly and I’ll update your RSVP! 🎉
Wristbands will be distributed from 5:30 PM to 8:30 PM. Since this is a private event, the venue will close around 9 PM.When you arrive:
When you enter Conannon parking lot, head to the back right of the parking lot to find Club 1883!
I'll be at the door ready to greet you!Age Info:
This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it’s hard to pinpoint. But based on my experience hosting over 100 events, the predominant age range tends to be 30-65. However, each event is unique and attracts a diverse crowd.DISCLAIMER:
This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.Mission statement:
Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
🌐 www.singlesmingleca.com23 attendees
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