Singles Mingle - Getting Singles Together - Bay Area

We're going back to Mad Oak!
Event is Friday 10/16/26 from 6-9pm!
We’re throwing a big, lively Singles Mingle party at Mad Oak in Oakland! We’ll have the entire upstairs balcony to ourselves — complete with heaters, a private bar, delicious food available to order, light background music, and of course, our signature icebreaker game. Free entry!
📍 135 12th St, Oakland - 6pm to 9pm!
Bring physical ID/passport: This place scans your ID barcode so it is required in order to attend.
Take the stairs near the main entrance. You’ll find me or my cohost at the top of the stairs, ready to greet you with a wristband and your icebreaker game.
Parking: street parking is available, and there are two nearby garages that look promising online — Alco Parking Garage and Douglas Parking.
Come join the fun!
This event is free! No RSVP or ticket required and bring as many guests as you'd like!

READ AGE INFO BELOW!
READ RATIO INFO BELOW!
READ RATING INFO BELOW!

Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.

DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).

RSVP Note: Please note that RSVPs are not required.
Feel free to bring friends and simply show up – no tickets or RSVP needed. FREE ALL AGES (21+) EVENT.

A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊

### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!

30&UP - Free entry - Private party
We are taking over Bar and Bean Fusion on Saturday, October 17th, for a totally private mixer! From 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM, the space is ours.
Come for the adorable ambiance, stay for the delicious cocktails, food menu, and the best crowd of local singles in the city! There are both indoor and outdoor areas to hang out, mingle, and meet new people.
If you’ve been looking for a night that feels more like a party and less like a “dating event,” this is it! Grab a drink, enjoy some food, head outside, and make some new connections in a relaxed atmosphere.
🗓 Saturday, October 17th | 7 PM – 10 PM
📍 Bar and Bean Fusion, SF
🍴 Food Menu Available
🌿 Indoor & Outdoor Areas
🎟 Private Event
Let’s make some Saturday night magic. See you there! ❤️

DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).

Age Information
This event is for ages 30 and up!

Disclaimer
This event is advertised across multiple social media platforms, so RSVP counts may not reflect actual attendance.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not included with free admission.
You're welcome to bring a wing person that is not single—they just won't receive a wristband or icebreaker game.

### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️

Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!

ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.

🎉 NEW VENUE ALERT! LIVERMORE, WE’RE COMING YOUR WAY! 🍷✨
Singles Mingle is heading to Pruett Farms in Livermore for the first time!
📅 Saturday, October 24th
⏰ 4–7 PM
🎟️ $10 Entry
🚗 FREE Parking
Come spend your Saturday afternoon with me and Jeannine Wolfe, surrounded by beautiful scenery, delicious wine, and local singles! Your entry also includes complimentary small bites, including sandwiches and snacks. 🥪🍷
🎉 PLUS — RAFFLE GIVEAWAY!
Two lucky winners will each receive 3 dating coaching sessions with Jeannine Wolfe, brought to you by Soulmate Quest!

Want to pay at the door? Just comment “GOING” below and I’ll manually move you to Attending — Unpaid, then you can simply pay your $10 when you arrive!

⚠️ CAPACITY IS ONLY 150 PEOPLE! Once we hit capacity, that’s it—so get yourself on the RSVP list before this one sells out!
New venue, wine, beautiful surroundings, free bites, dating-coaching giveaways, and a whole bunch of singles. Sounds like a pretty good Saturday to me! 🍷❤️

🎟 $10 Entry
Pay via Meetup (PayPal), Venmo @Adeline-Farrer, or at the door.
Your PayPal or Venmo receipt is your ticket—please have it ready at check-in to receive your wristband and icebreaker game!
Prefer to pay at the door or via Venmo (@Adeline-Farrer)? Just message me directly and I’ll switch your RSVP to “Going”! 🎉

📣 IMPORTANT REMINDER FOR PAID SINGLES MINGLE EVENTS! ❤️
If you plan on attending one of my paid events, PLEASE get on the RSVP list!
I absolutely don’t mind people showing up and paying at the door, but if you have the option to RSVP beforehand, please take it! It makes a HUGE difference in helping both Singles Mingle and the venue properly prepare for the party.
Venues often make staffing and food decisions based on RSVP numbers. Sometimes low numbers mean fewer employees scheduled, no food truck, or less preparation overall. Then a bunch of people show up unexpectedly, and the venue isn’t prepared for the crowd!
You do NOT have to pay in advance to RSVP!
Simply comment “GOING” below or message me “GOING”, and I’ll mark you as attending but unpaid. You can still show up and pay at the door!
Even if you’re not 100% sure you can make it, I’d still appreciate your RSVP. If your plans change, just let me know and I can remove you from the list. No problem at all!
The more accurate the RSVP count, the better I can prepare for everyone and the better experience I can help create!
Thank you for helping me make these events successful! ❤️

READ AGE INFO BELOW!
READ RATIO INFO BELOW!
READ RATING INFO BELOW!

Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! Please keep in mind that 21+ is simply the minimum age, not the typical age range. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, although every event is different and attracts a diverse mix of singles.

A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not necessarily representative of the actual event. Singles Mingle events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand. Every event is different, and the crowd can vary depending on the venue, location, day, age group, and many other factors.
The vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere. On the rare occasion there is an entry fee, it’s typically only $10.
Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always welcome to head out and continue with your evening. 😊

### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!

San Rafael — Are you ready?! 📣
Join us Sunday, October 25th (6–9 PM) for Singles Mingle at Pond Farm Brewing Co.!
Come spend your Sunday evening mingling with local singles while enjoying 16 house-brewed beers on draft, a great wine selection, plenty of ciders, and a full food menu!
Why you should be there:

• ✨ FREE Entry
• 🧩 Icebreaker Game — our signature way to help you start the conversation!
• 🍔 Full Food Menu — easy QR code ordering right from your table!
• 🚗 Free Street Parking
• 🌳 Indoor & Outdoor mingling spaces

Upon arrival, look for the Singles Mingle check-in table! Stop by to grab your wristband and icebreaker game so you can easily identify other singles attending the event.
No RSVP required—just show up! We wrap up at 9:00 PM, so arrive early to make the most of the night.
🍻 This event is completely FREE! No RSVP or ticket required, and bring as many single friends as you'd like!
See you in San Rafael! 🍻✨❤️

Please note this isn’t a private party, the venue will remain open to the public. You’ll receive a wristband at check-in so it’s easy to spot fellow attendees 🙂

DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are not included with the free entry. They are available for purchase.

Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.

A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊

### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!