
What we’re about
This group was started to create a great community in the Bucks and Berks areas. Attending our events is a great way to make new sociable friends and to maybe even meet that someone special along the way if you're currently single. The socials are open to everyone and you don't need to be single to join. However, we do only want people who are single for the dating events.
You will also see events listed on our Meet Up by Toyin from Get a Social Life who puts up some interesting events also not within the area such as holidays abroad, weekend breaks and some classy events in London.
Hope to see you all soon to start social networking locally.
Best wishes Julie Davies
Featured event

SAT FEB 7 BIG PRE VALENTINES SINGLES PARTY MAX 200 for 30+ in Marlow
We feel this magnificent venue will only be suited to a big event with Max 200 and DJ John Johnny for the best atmosphere.
Feb 7th gives you time to meet someone to go on a date for Valentines Feb 14th.
Text Julie on 07948 417416 if you would like the booking details.
SOLD OUT FOR LADIES for the Dining Speed Datining 6.30pm but can take ladies for the party only from 8.30pm until Midnight.
NEED MEN TO BALANCE FOR THE WHOLE EVENT.
We have some people booked by members. Please can you ensure that the new people join Meet Up and our group https://www.meetup.com/single-and-social-parties-events-bucks-berks and post their own RSVP as attending by the date of the event. This way they will appear on the overall photowall for the event which is required. They are included in the numbers at present but do need to register.
We will again hold the dining speed dating at 6.30pm with a different menu but on 6 tables of 8 so not so tiring. The men will move every 15 minutes and the ladies will move half way around the tables this time to be able to chat to the men on the other side of the table.
Tickets are ÂŁ34.50 direct transfer for the whole event (this includes the hire fee cost also built into the ticket price). 6.30pm arrival.
(price is ÂŁ37.50 via the site link https://www.single-and-social-bucks.co.uk ). Text Julie on 07948 417416 if you would like the account number to transfer direct.
Party Only from 8.30pm ÂŁ18 direct transfer or ÂŁ19.50 via the site.
The menu for the sharing platters coming to the tables for the 6.30pm bookings is:
-chicken satay skewers with satay sauce on the side
-vegetable skewers with pitta bread & houmous
- samosas & onion bhajis with mint sauce & sweet chilli jam
-fruit platter
- mini cakes
We are asking for smart dress code so no jeans, t shirts, jumpers or trainers. We won't be insisting on men wearing suits for this one but hopefully you understand what we mean by smart guys.
This is going to be an amazing event with DJ John Johnny.
A Bit About Harleyford Golf Club in Marlow
Beautifully crafted in a natural downland setting, the 6,903 yard par 72 course is both challenging and rewarding to players of all levels. It has had a multi-million pound makeover and is still the number one inclusive golf course in the area. Visitors are most welcome and they have membership packages to suit all your golfing needs.
The history of the estate dates back to the 12th century and is designated as “an area of outstanding beauty”. The clubhouse has been developed on a theme from the Victorian farm buildings and provides stunning facilities for many social occasions.
If you were looking for a beautiful venue to hold a party this venue is suited to all occasions and Vicky the events manager is very helpful. You can contact them on 01628 816161
info@harleyfordgolf.co.uk
Regards Julie Davies from Single & Social Bucks Berks
juliedavies076@gmail.com or 07948 417416 if any questions
Upcoming events
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- ÂŁ2,599.00

New Year, New Adventure: Celebrate in Sri Lanka Colombo Near Beach in 13 days
Location not specified yetHave you had a few too many quiet or boring New Years? Time to change the game. Pack your bags and ring in the New Year 2026 on the magical island of Sri Lanka.
Join me for golden beaches, ancient temples, wildlife safaris, mouth watering cuisine and a celebration to remember. A trip of a lifetime across the Indian Ocean, surrounded by amazing people, unforgettable experiences, and positive energy to kickstart your year in style.
Whether you're flying solo or bringing a friend—everyone's welcome!
A fantastic diverse tour that included temples, caves, tea plantations, safaris, an elephant transit centre, boat trips, train rides, excellent hotels, wonderful weather and delicious eateries.
Sri Lanka, the Pearl of the Indian Ocean, is an irresistible destination. This tranquil island boasts idyllic beaches, ancient ruins, sacred temples, verdant tea plantations, and an abundance of elephants and diverse wildlife. Immerse yourself in the magic of this extraordinary island as we journey through its breathtaking landscapes, uncover its rich history, and experience the warmth of its people and incredible natural wonders.
The name Sri Lanka means “Resplendent Island”, and nothing could be more appropriate for this lush tropical paradise. Sri Lanka’s vast forests are home to elephants, leopards, bears, monkeys and crocodiles, as well as a diversity of birdlife.
Visa
You will need a visa to Visit, please see link below for further details
Entry requirements - Sri Lanka travel advice - GOV.UK
Currency: Sri Lankan rupee
Weather: In December - January 29 Degrees
Vaccine requirements: Not needed if residing in the UK
CHECK DETAILS BELOW IF ARRIVING FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY https://nathnacyfzone.org.uk/factsheet/65/countries-with-risk-of-yellow-fever-transmission
This holiday will take place once i have 4 deposits, if i don't you will be refunded fully and trip will be cancelled.
Name of hotel will be disclosed once you have paid in full. Hotel will be of 4 star standard, we always stay at good standard accommodation.
Itinerary
Day 1 (Fri)
We fly overnight from Gatwick. This flight has one stop over on return flights
Day 2 (Sat)
On arrival to the airport we are transferred to our hotel. FREE TIME to relax and recover from our travels
Day 3 (Sun)
Today at 10.30 am we will explore Colombo for 4 hours on a city sightseeing tour by tuk-tuk. See some colonial architecture City and Dawn Town Local life, eat delicious street food, and shop for souvenirs and Find the Gem Mine. Bustling with energy all day long, this is a city of vibrant colours and rich culture, offering fascinating insights into the national psyche of Sri Lanka.
We will visit Gangaramaya Temple, Colombo Fort, Pettah bazar, Viharamahadevi Park, Independent square, Pettah Market and Galle Face Green, includes bottle of water and coconut water.
Day 4 (Mon)
An early start today pick up between 5:30 AM and 6:30 AM TBC. Day trip to Sigiriya and Dambulla and Safari. Relax and enjoy the scenic countryside—lush greenery, quiet farmlands, and misty landscapes. A breakfast stop at Café Amakie in Kurunegala (self-paid), which offers a selection of local and international dishes, before heading to Dambulla.
The safari offers a chance to spot elephants, deer, birds, and other wildlife in their natural habitat. If you are not keen on safari you can enjoy leisure time visiting batik and silk shops or indulging in an Ayurvedic massage.
The tour is an immersive cultural experience with a traditional bullock cart ride through scenic paddy fields, followed by a canoe journey across a serene lake. Upon arriving at a village home, a freshly prepared meal with authentic Sri Lankan flavors is served. A tuk-tuk ride concludes the tour, offering a chance to interact with locals and witness everyday rural life. For those opting for wildlife instead of the village tour, an optional jeep safari awaits at Eco Park, Kaudulla, or Minneriya National Park, depending on seasonal animal movement.
Day 5 (Tues) Free Time
Day 6 (Wed) New Years Eve
Let's have an easy day today or go into town etc. Details of a New Year's Party to be confirmed
Day 7 (Thurs) Happy New Year xx
A day to relax, go to the beach or swim at the hotel, shopping etc
Day 8 (Fri)
Super early start at 4am
Tea Factory, Train, and Nine Arch Day Tour
Discover Ella's natural beauty and enchanting sights on a day trip with all transportation included. Visit the Halpewaththa Tea Factory, unwind at the Ravana Pool Club, and hike to Little Adam's Peak.
The hike is 45-minute, the journey may be a bit of a challenge, but the reward of the awe-inspiring panoramic views, that await is worthwhile.
We will also visit the Ravana Waterfall, an iconic sight ranked among the country's most popular attractions. Witness cascading water amidst lush surroundings, then arrive in Ella, a charming town nestled amidst one-of-a-kind scenery.
For those seeking an adrenaline rush, get ready to experience the thrill of a lifetime on the Flying Ravana Mega Ziplinne. Feel an unparalleled sense of adventure coursing through your veins as you fly through the sky.
Day 9 (Sat) FREE TIME
Day 10 (Sun)
Early start day tour to Ambuluwawa Tower & Pinnwala Elephant Orphanage, Kandy Temple of Tooth and more
We can visit the following attractions during our full-day tour
1. Pinnawala Elephant Orphanage (need to buy an entrance ticket) Price TBC
2. Ambuluwawa Tower (Ambuluwawa Biodiversity Complex) (need to buy entrance ticket) Price TBC
3. Tea Factory & Tea estate (free entrance)
4. Royal Botanical Garden (need to buy entrance ticket) Price TBC
5. Temple of Tooth relic (need to buy entrance ticket) Price TBC
6. The great kandy culture dance show (need to buy entrance ticket) Price TBC
7. Spice garden (free entrance)
8. Gem museum (free entrance)
9. Kandy viewpoint (free entrance)
Day 11 (Mon)
Galle Fort and Jungle Beach Day Trip
Discover Galle Fort’s rich history on a guided day trip. Visit Kalutara Temple, see stilt fishermen, Madu River safari, Hikkaduwa, visit a turtle hatchery, and relax at the Jungle Beach.
Includes Guided tour of Galle Fort and surrounding attraction
- Exploration of a tsunami village
- Tickets for stilt fishermen
- Entrance fees to galle fort
- Tickets For Jungle beach
- Tickets For Fish therapy In maaduriver and crocodile
- Entry for all temples to see the culture and traditions.
- srilankan king coconut
- Taking pictures and holding turtles is free from us
- Bottle of water
Additional fees for TBC
- Turtle farm
- Maaduriver safari islands
Day 12 (Tues) FREE TIME to enjoy your last day
Early evening flight back to the UK
Day 13 (Wed) Arrival Back in the UK
What's Included
Return flights from Gatwick
Luggage allowance
- 1 x 7kg cabin bag per person (50 x 37 x 25 cm)
- 1 x 23kg hold luggage items
B&B (Bed & Breakfast)
Return transfers to the airport
Tuk tuk city tour
Day trip to Sigiriya and Dambulla and Safari
Tea Factory, Train, and Nine Arch Day Tour
Ambuluwawa Tower, Pinnwala Elephant Orphanage, Kandy Temple of Tooth and more
Galle Fort and Jungle Beach Day Trip
Not Included
Lunch
Dinner
Drinks
Tips
Possible hotel taxes
Any thing not mentioned above
Price ÂŁ2599 Non refundable unless trip is cancelled
(Dated Trip Posted 22/04/2025)
Single supplement (Own Room) ÂŁ2999
ÂŁ100 off if deposit paid by 22nd April
WITHOUT FLIGHTS AND TRANSFERS
Get your own flights and transfers return from the airport ÂŁ1750 if sharing or own room ÂŁ2099
Deposit ÂŁ300
To be paid ASAP and ongoing payments of ÂŁ300 per month on the 22nd of each month with the final payments made by the 26th of November 2025.
PLEASE DO NOT RSVP UNLESS YOU HAVE PAID YOUR DEPOSIT, OR YOUR RSVP WILL CHANGE TO NOT GOING
Funds are non refundable unless trip is cancelled
Bank account details Please pay to:
Toyin Oke (Personal Account)
Barclays
Account number 73937305
Sort code: 209467
Ref: Your name
Please message me once you have made payments in order for me to confirm.
By paying a deposit you will be agreeing to the following cancellation policies:
Click here to see Get A Social Life terms and conditions
My number just in case 07957320516
PLEASE NOTE THERE MAY BE SOME LAST MINUTE CHANGES IN REGARDS TO EXCURSIONS, WILL KEEP YOU UPDATED.
Hope you are able to join us.1 attendee 
SAT FEB 7 BIG PRE VALENTINES SINGLES PARTY MAX 200 for 30+ in Marlow
Hayleyford Golf Club, Harleyford Estate Harleyford, Henley Rd, Marlow SL7 2SP, Marlow, GBWe feel this magnificent venue will only be suited to a big event with Max 200 and DJ John Johnny for the best atmosphere.
Feb 7th gives you time to meet someone to go on a date for Valentines Feb 14th.
Text Julie on 07948 417416 if you would like the booking details.
SOLD OUT FOR LADIES for the Dining Speed Datining 6.30pm but can take ladies for the party only from 8.30pm until Midnight.
NEED MEN TO BALANCE FOR THE WHOLE EVENT.
We have some people booked by members. Please can you ensure that the new people join Meet Up and our group https://www.meetup.com/single-and-social-parties-events-bucks-berks and post their own RSVP as attending by the date of the event. This way they will appear on the overall photowall for the event which is required. They are included in the numbers at present but do need to register.
We will again hold the dining speed dating at 6.30pm with a different menu but on 6 tables of 8 so not so tiring. The men will move every 15 minutes and the ladies will move half way around the tables this time to be able to chat to the men on the other side of the table.
Tickets are ÂŁ34.50 direct transfer for the whole event (this includes the hire fee cost also built into the ticket price). 6.30pm arrival.
(price is ÂŁ37.50 via the site link https://www.single-and-social-bucks.co.uk ). Text Julie on 07948 417416 if you would like the account number to transfer direct.
Party Only from 8.30pm ÂŁ18 direct transfer or ÂŁ19.50 via the site.
The menu for the sharing platters coming to the tables for the 6.30pm bookings is:
-chicken satay skewers with satay sauce on the side
-vegetable skewers with pitta bread & houmous
- samosas & onion bhajis with mint sauce & sweet chilli jam
-fruit platter
- mini cakes
We are asking for smart dress code so no jeans, t shirts, jumpers or trainers. We won't be insisting on men wearing suits for this one but hopefully you understand what we mean by smart guys.
This is going to be an amazing event with DJ John Johnny.
A Bit About Harleyford Golf Club in Marlow
Beautifully crafted in a natural downland setting, the 6,903 yard par 72 course is both challenging and rewarding to players of all levels. It has had a multi-million pound makeover and is still the number one inclusive golf course in the area. Visitors are most welcome and they have membership packages to suit all your golfing needs.
The history of the estate dates back to the 12th century and is designated as “an area of outstanding beauty”. The clubhouse has been developed on a theme from the Victorian farm buildings and provides stunning facilities for many social occasions.
If you were looking for a beautiful venue to hold a party this venue is suited to all occasions and Vicky the events manager is very helpful. You can contact them on 01628 816161
info@harleyfordgolf.co.uk
Regards Julie Davies from Single & Social Bucks Berks
juliedavies076@gmail.com or 07948 417416 if any questions86 attendees
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