About us
Radiant & Rare Society | Rochester
A private women’s social club in the Rochester, NY area.
A place where meaningful connections with inspiring, supportive, uplifting women grow into fierce, loyal, lifelong friendships.
Radiant & Rare Society brings together women of depth, elegance, and ambition around some of Rochester’s most beautiful tables and venues.
Here, conversation comes easily. Familiarity forms naturally. New faces become familiar ones, connections deepen, and friendships begin to take shape—the kind that become woven into the fabric of a beautiful life.
This is a society for women who appreciate quality—in friendship, in experience, and in life.
Age is not the measure.
Standards are.
Whether you are 35 or 65, what matters is how you move through the world, what you value, and the kind of women you want beside you.
The E.L.I.T.E. Standard
There is a certain kind of woman who recognizes these values instinctively.
Elegance in how she carries herself.
Legacy in what she leaves behind.
Intention in how she lives and who she allows close.
Tenacity in what she builds and how she rises.
Expansion in the life she continues to create.
Together, they form the E.L.I.T.E. Standard—the values at the heart of Radiant & Rare Society.
They shape the rooms we create, the experiences we choose, and the community we continue to build.
Not a measure of age, title, or résumé. A shared standard for how we live, connect, and move through the world.
The Rochester Calendar
Friday Fine Dining Evenings
An elegant evening of fine dining and connection at some of Rochester’s most beautiful restaurants, with complimentary valet and coat check at select locations.
Saturday Night Out
Beautiful surroundings. Inspiring women. A Saturday evening of effortless connection and exceptional company.
Wine Down Wednesdays
For women who appreciate good wine, beautiful surroundings, and unhurried conversation.
Prosecco & Oysters
An elevated happy hour for effortless connection, uplifting company, and deep belly laughter.
Our gatherings remain intentionally intimate, creating space for meaningful conversation and allowing every woman to feel part of the evening.
Each guest selects and pays for her own food and beverages choices directly with the restaurant. No shared table bill. Simply order what you love.
Effortless by Design
You choose the evening.
We take care of the details.
The restaurant, reservation, table, timing, and experience are already considered before you arrive.
Simply arrive, take your seat, and enjoy the company ✨
Membership
Membership makes Radiant & Rare Society part of the rhythm of your life.
Radiant Members enjoy complimentary access to every Radiant & Rare Society dinner.
VIP Members enjoy complimentary access to all our Signature Events.
Members simply reserve their place using their private access.
Discover membership at radiantandrare.com
The Founder
Laura Marsala
U.S. Marine. Mother of three. Influential Woman 2026. Featured in U.S. Insider.
Radiant & Rare Society was built around the belief that the environments we enter, the experiences we choose, and the people we surround ourselves with shape the quality of our lives.
It began with one simple idea:
A beautiful life should include beautiful friendships.
Rochester, your table is ready.
Reserve your seat.
Vivi Bene!
Upcoming events
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- $35.00
Wine Down Wednesday 🍷
Rochester Area, Rochester, NY, USJoin us for sophisticated, intimate, mid-week magic.
Trade your typical Wednesday evening for something infinitely better: curated wines, elevated conversation, and the company of women who value authentic friendships.
An intimate gathering at one of Rochester's most beautiful wine bars or restaurants, with a carefully selected group of women who appreciate the finer things—including genuine connection.
WHAT YOU'LL EXPERIENCE:
🍷 Curated wine selection in an intimate setting
💎 A table of fun-loving women who value depth over small talk
✨ Effortless conversation that flows as smoothly as the wine
🥂 Mid-week elevation—because Wednesday deserves to be special tooYour $35 ticket reserves your seat. Food and beverages are ordered individually and paid for separately - no shared checks, just ease and elegance.
📍 We mix up locations but are always in the Rochester area or nearby (Victor, Pittsford, etc) Location is sent to RSVPs the day prior to maintain exclusivity.
👗 Dress Code: Elevated CasualTHIS IS FOR YOU IF:
✔️ You're ready to elevate your mid-week routine
✔️ You appreciate good wine and even better company
✔️ You want to meet women who value quality connections and make time to nourish friendshipsWhether you're new to Rochester, expanding your circle, or simply craving Wednesday evenings that feel special—this is your table.
Just reserve your seat, show up, and let the week get infinitely better.
Limited to 6 seats.
Your mid-week just got infinitely more interesting.
Reserve your spot now.
Radiant & Rare Society Members enjoy exclusive events, priority access, and perks in our loyalty program.
Membership Information here: www.radiantandrare.com
Join a curated community of women who value genuine connection and elevated experiences.
3 attendees - $45.00
Women's Dinner Party: Make New Friends & Expand Your Circle (Rochester, NY)
Rochester, New York, Location revealed to RSVPs the day prior to the event, Rochester, NY, USA Glamorous Dinner Party | Radiant & Rare Society Rochester Area
Make new friends with women who share your values - meaningful conversations, great food, and an appreciation for the finer things in life.East Side has no shortage of places to be seen.
It has very few places to be known.
An exclusive dinner at one of Rochester Area's finest restaurants, shared with an intimate table of women who value depth, authenticity, and meaningful connection.
An Evening Designed for Making New, Meaningful Friendships
Our dinners are thoughtfully curated so conversation comes easily and everyone feels part of the experience.
Each table welcomes up to five women. We host multiple tables each evening, welcoming additional guests to a new table as each one fills.
Expect a beautiful restaurant, great wine, meaningful conversation, and the kind of laughter that makes you lose track of time.
Seating is limited to preserve the intimate atmosphere that defines a Radiant & Rare Society table.
Coming alone? Most of our guests do. Our dinners are designed to make meeting new women feel natural, comfortable, and genuinely enjoyable.
"I felt rejuvenated after meeting you all! Thank you!"
— Erika"Had such an amazing time tonight! Truly great conversations with incredible women. Thank you for hosting an amazing dinner party!"
— Iliana"Fun night! Very comfortable. Looking forward to going to another event!"
— NicoleThis Is for You If
- You appreciate refinement and an upscale dining experience
- You want to make new friends with fun, discerning, like-minded women
It doesn't matter if you are 35 or 65. Different ages. Different seasons of life. Shared values.
What Our Guests Say
From our Radiant & Rare Society gatherings"True connections and new friendships! I felt seen, acknowledged, and relaxed. The event was fulfilling, and the group felt authentic and fun. I'm so grateful to be a part of this!"
— Lisa"Everything was great and I enjoyed myself! My dinner was delicious, we had great conversations, and the vibe was amazing! I love being able to meet other women who are driven and passionate."
— Cassie"Before tonight, I felt like I was breathing shallow. After meeting you ladies, I felt oxygen in my blood, like the breath of fresh air my body and soul needed! And if this is just the beginning, I'm eager to turn the next page! Thank you for holding such a beautiful space for us all to be our authentic selves!!"
— Lena"I felt relaxed and at ease. I enjoyed the conversations, and it's clear there's effort behind it. What makes Radiant & Rare Society different is the substance behind it."
— BrandiEverything You Need to Know
Location: East Rochester Area, New York (including Pittsford, Fairport, and Penfield)
The restaurant location is revealed exclusively to confirmed guests by email the day prior to the event, along with any additional venue-specific details.
Your Reservation: Your ticket reserves your seat at the table. We handle all the logistics; all you need to do is choose what to wear.
Dining: Food and beverages are ordered and paid for individually, directly with the restaurant. No shared checks, just simplicity and ease.
Dress Code: Elevated chic or cocktail attire.
Timing: Dinner runs approximately three hours, or until the conversation naturally winds down. Stay as long as you like.
If Plans Change: Tickets may be transferred up to seven days before the event.
Membership Access
Not a member yet?
Radiant Members enjoy complimentary access to all Radiant & Rare Society dinners.
VIP Members enjoy complimentary access to all dinners plus unlimited complimentary access to all of our Signature Events.
Discover membership at www.radiantandrare.com
Your future best friends might be at this table.
We look forward to welcoming you.
Vivi Bene
2 attendees
Past events
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