What we’re about
ABOUT US
Hello Ladies! I’m excited that our group is growing so rapidly and that so many of your are engaging in our events!!
Our common goal is to meet and build real relationships at and outside of our Meetup events. Set a goal to walk away from each event with a few new phone numbers, then actually CALL each other once in a while. Let's build each other up, check in on each other, lean on each other and provide support. Let's move beyond "Lucinda from Meetup" and get to know each other's last names, lives and passions. Are you with me?
I rely on you to recommend a variety of events so that the group becomes and remains interesting to everyone. Will you help me with that??
Join us and invite your girlfriends. Try something new. I can't wait to connect with you!
Your hostess, organizer and new girlfriend,
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040
NO SHOWS AND LAST MINUTE CANCELLATIONS
Our groups is rapidly growing, and most events are filling up quickly. With that in mind, I want to address our growing number of no-shows and last minute cancellations.
Last minute cancellations should be an exception (like your broke your leg and there's a bone sticking out), not a rule. Last minute vacancies often go unfilled, even when there’s a waitlist because ladies have already made other plans. Please only RSVP to events that you are sure you want to attend and keep your RSVPs up-to-date. Do not RSVP before checking your calendar. Do not RSVP if you're waiting to see if something better comes along.
No-shows and last minute cancellations are frustrating and, well...not so mannerly. I ask that you keep in mind the volume of time, energy AND COST (yes, your organizers pay an annual out-of-pocket fee to MeetUp) that goes into planning events for you, including visiting venues, researching events, coordinating reservations and fielding lots of questions from the group. So, trust me, when an event finally rolls around, I’m so ready to enjoy it!! But when you just don't show up, your hostess is most likely worried that you couldn’t find us, couldn’t find parking or you were too nervous to meet a group of strangers. Your hostess then spends time trying to reach you, looking for you on the street, apologizing to the restaurant for the unfilled seats, and checking the her phone to make sure you’re not lost. That makes it virtually impossible for your hostess to enjoy her own event. So please exercise basic common courtesy and etiquette - keep your RSVPs up to date and please CALL your hostess/organizer if you’re cancelling within 24 hours of the event. It's the decent thing to do. Thanks for your understanding and contributions to this amazing tribe of women. ❤️
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Live Performance: "Sweet Charity" Musical at San Jose Stage (Matinee)Stage Theater, San Jose, CA
Hello Besties!
In June, we're offering two options for seeing Sweet Charity at the San Jose Stage, and we hope you'll join us for one of the shows! Please bring a friend or two (or three) and support this incredible local theatre company. The fabulous and delightful Jeaneen Sullivan will be your host for this event (thank you Jeaneen!)
Inspired by Federico Fellini's Nights of Cabiria, Sweet Charity explores the turbulent love life of Charity Hope Valentine, a hopeless romantic but comically unfortunate dance hall hostess in New York City. With a tuneful, groovy, mid-1960s score by Cy Coleman, lyrics by Dorothy Fields, and a hilarious book by Neil Simon, Sweet Charity captures all the energy, humor, and heartbreak of Life in the Big City for an unfortunate but irrepressible optimist.
This show comes to The Stage Theater in downtown San Jose for four weeks only. Our group has been graciously offered significantly reduced tickets of $25 each. Come join us for another intimate and engaging performance to support our local small theater!
ABOUT:
https://www.thestage.org/sweet-charityLOGISTICS:
Once you've committed to attending THIS show show, we will not be able to switch your ticket to the evening show. Also, as a courtesy to your hosts, please make payment promptly and don't make us track you down for it. It already takes a lot of time to coordinate these events for you, ok? \EVENT DETAILS:
- Who: All of us ladies. Please bring a friend- male or female!
- When: Saturday, June 21th. Arrive by 1:45pm, show starts at 2pm
- What: "Sweet Charity" at San Jose Stage Theater, then optional eats and drinks directly after a few blocks away at the SoFa Market Food Hall (http://www.sofamarketsj.com)
- Where: 490 South 1st Street, San Jose, CA 95113
- Parking: There are several paid lots nearby. Please allow enough time to find parking. Most metered street parking on Saturday expires after two hours.
- Payment: Tickets are $25 and are nonrefundable. Please make payment as soon as you RSVP:
- Venmo: @jeaneen-sullivan. Please put name for ticket(s) in description. Use "Friends and Family" so I don't pay fee.
- If you need the last four digits of Jeaneen's phone #: 4572
- Jeaneen do not use Zelle, but you can message her directly to arrange alternate payment if necessary.
Ladies, if you're new to the group, this is a fun way to get to know some new friends. We are a friendly bunch and we will take great care of you, so you'll have a fantastic time!
Warmest regards,
Lucinda and Jeaneen - “Girls and Swirls" New Members Mixer at Aqui! ($10 REFUNDABLE Fee Applies)Aqui Campbell, Campbell, CA
This mixer is specifically for members who've joined AFTER January 1, 2025 OR who've never been to one of our events.
Hey there, Newbie!
We're excited that you've joined our very fun group, so let's get you out, involved, mixing and mixing, shall we?? You'll find that this group is a little different than many others - we are incredibly welcoming, warm and friendly. Attending the first event, especially coming alone, is hard for everyone, but don't worry. This mixer is all about you, and you will be well taken care of, I promise!
So...let's connect for great food and some great company at one of our go-to favorites...Aqui! in Campbell. Aqui is where the flavors of Southwest Asia, California and Latin America are expertly blended to deliver an incredible, yet casual dining experience.
Who: Just us girls, and you're welcome to bring a girlfriend.
Location: 201 E Campbell Ave, Campbell, CA 95008
Date: tuesday, july 8
Time: 5:00- 6:30
PM (if anyone can arrive a little early to help me commandeer tables, it would be appreciated!)
Attire: Business casual
How to find the Ladies: I'll arrive early to have a table set up for 15, so it should be easy to spot. But if not, just text me at 408-748-4040 and I'll come find you.
Menu: There's something for everyone on Aqui's menu!
$10 Refundable Fee: To minimize no-shows and last minute cancellations, there is a $10 reservation fee for this event. If you arrive between 5:00- 5:15PM your $10 will be returned to you. If you cancel 24 hours before the event, arrive more than 15 minutes late or don't show up at all, your $10 will be donated. Your $10 payment is due when you RSVP, ok? To pay the $10 fee:- Venmo: @lucindalayton (last 4 digits of phone: 4040)
- Zelle: lucindalayton1@gmail.com
Looking forward to seeing/meeting you!
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040 - Kayaking in Elkhorn Slough in Monterey (Read details - $10 deposit required)Monterey Bay Kayaks, Moss Landing, CA
Ladies,
Please join me for a day of kayaking in Elkhorn Slough! I kayak here a few times each summer and it's a unique and exciting experience every time. I know you're going to love it!About kayaking in Elkhorn Slough:
Elkhorn Slough is generally shallow water and full of sea life. We'll see plenty of sea otters (and maybe some babies), lots of birds and sometimes lots of jelly fish. The water in the slough is relatively calm - more like a slow moving river. We'll be on the water by 9:30ish and come back in around 1 - 1:30pm. Coming back in, we'll likely be paddling against a bit of wind, and it can sometimes be a workout, so be ready for that. In total, we'll be on the water between 3-4 hours.EVENT DETAILS
Who: Us gals...and you're welcome to bring guests, male or female, age 14+.
When: Saturday, july 12th
Where: Monterey Bay Kayaks, 2390 SR-1, Moss Landing, CA (about 32 miles from San Jose)
Departure and Carpooling: For anyone who would like to carpool or follow me down, we'll leave my house at 7:45AM. My house is 3212 Woodmont Drive, SJ. If carpooling, please be prepared to help cover gas and parking for the trip.
Arrival: We need to arrive at Monterey Bay Kayaks at 8:45AM to get in line, complete safety waivers, get our kayaks rented, fitted for life jackets, get through a quick kayaking tuetc. The earlier we get on the water the better.
Parking: I believe parking is $10 per vehicle.
Attire: A life jacket will be provided for you. I usually wear a lightweight jacket and shorts, with a tank top underneath. Wear some sort of water shoes or flip flops. You will get wet and sandy, so bring a towel and dry clothing for the drive home.
Kayaks: There are multiple options but I recommend the following:- Singles: Single sit-on-top kayak which costs $53 per person.
- Doubles: If you're bringing a friend or have arranged to buddy up with another gal, I suggest a sit-on-top double kayak, which costs $45 per person.
What to bring: Hat, sunglasses, sunscreen, bottled water, a snack, towel and dry clothing for the drive home. Bring a Ziplock bag or "dry bag" for your keys, cell phone, snacks, AND bring lunch!!
Food: You'll need water and a snack while we're on the water. After kayaking, we'll change into dry clothing. Restaurants in the area usually have a very long wait on Saturdays, so please bring your own lunch and we'll picnic in the parking lot before we all head home.
Learn more about kayaking in Elkhorn Slough
Cost: $45-$53 for kayak rental and $10 for parking. Yoy’ll pay for you kayak when you arrive.
**Refundable Deposit: there is a refundable $10 reservation fee fir this event. Your $10 will be refunded if and when you arrive before 9 AM for the event. Late arrivals, last-minute cancellations or no-shows forfeit your $10. Please make payment to Lucinda Layton via Venmo:@lucindadalaytonThis will be one the of best adventures you'll have all summer!!
Looking forward to see you on the water,
Lucinda Layton
408-748-4040
