Gist IRL Social

4.6•490 ratings

San Francisco, CA, US

4,840 members · Public group

What we’re about

Gist is a guided experience designed to make it simpler for humans to connect — intentionally, meaningfully, and without the noise.

Each mixer has a unique theme. Through a series of one-on-one 8-minute rounds, you get to meet everyone in the room. You show up as you are — no bios, no algorithms, no judgment. Just real people meeting in real life, with structure that makes it efficient, non-awkward, and unexpectedly joyful.

Whether you're here for new friendships, collaborators, or a deeper sense of presence, Gist creates space for mutual discovery — of others and of self.

We’re not building another networking tool — we’re restoring what it means to truly connect, and inviting you to try it for yourself.

Upcoming events

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Speed Friending - Madrone Art Bar [SF]
Sat, Jan 17 · 6:00 PM PST
Madrone Art Bar, 500 Divisadero St, (Corner of Fell & Divisadero), San Francisco, CA, US
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Welcome to Super Speed Friending - Bar Edition!

The perfect low-key way to expand your social circle.
No hosts, no assigned tables—just show up, grab a drink, and let the app guide your connections.

How It'll Work:

Step 1:
🎟️ Join & Check-In
Arrive & Check-In (5:50PM+) Head to Madrone Art Bar and grab a spot at the bar Important: Support the venue by ordering from their menu! Open the app and complete your quick profile check-in

Step 2: Speed Rounds (6:00PM - 7:00PM) Your app will notify you when each round begins Find your match at the bar and start chatting! Pro tip: Keep an eye on the app chat and your phone for timing updates You're responsible for tracking rounds—no host announcements

Step 3: Free Mingling (7:00PM+) Continue conversations or meet new people Use the in-app messaging to connect without sharing phone numbers

Key Differences for This Event:
⏰ Watch your own time—no bell or host cues
💬 Check the app chat regularly for updates
🍹 Mingle at the bar between/during rounds
🤝 Self-directed experience—you drive the energy!

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21 attendees
New Year's Speed-Friending [Oakland]
Sun, Jan 18 · 1:30 PM PST
Mad Oak Bar, 135 12th St, Oakland, CA, US
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New Year, New Friends! This New Year's Speed-friending event is your chance for a fresh start. We've designed a relaxed evening to unite help expand your social circle, share ideas, and spark new friendships. The main goal is to form a go-to circle for future activities.

Agenda

Welcome! Here's Your Guide to the Event.

🎟️ Join & Check-In

Step 1: Get Started (Check-in begins at 1:20PM)
When you arrive, please Check-In: just follow the link to complete a quick and easy profile setup on your phone.

Step 2: Meet Your Matches (1:30PM ~ 2:30PM)
This is where the fun begins! For the next hour, our app will be your guide. At the start of each new round, it will introduce you to your next one-on-one match. Simply find your partner and enjoy the conversation!

Step 3: Mix & Mingle (2:30PM+)
Once the one-on-one rounds conclude, the rest of the night is yours to chat with everyone. Feel free to continue a great conversation or introduce yourself to someone new.

Want to connect with someone? Use the app! It lets you stay in touch without ever revealing your phone number. PS: Please support the venue by getting an item off their menu.
217 attendees
Photo Hike & Jazz @ Birds & Beckett
Sun, Jan 18 · 3:00 PM PST
Glen Park, O'Shaughnessy Boulevard, San Francisco, CA, US
We’re changing it up—new neighborhood. Glen Park trails, photography, Sunday jazz to close it out.

You know the drill. Bring a camera if you have one, dress warm, come open-minded.

The plan:

Photo hike around Glen Park (Starting point: Glen Park BART plaza, 3 PM)

Wander down Chenery Street, shoot the neighborhood

End at Birds & Beckett for live jazz at 5 PM (exclusive perk reserved for our group)

All ages, all photography levels welcome. Plan subject to change.

Excited to see y’all!
88 attendees
Speed Friending & Refreshments (Ages 40+)
Thu, Jan 22 · 6:30 PM PST
738 10th Ave, San Francisco, Ca, US
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Finding a new, meaningful social connection or a community space that feels right can be a real challenge once you are over 40. It often feels like everyone already has their set circles, but we believe there is always room for one more at the table. This evening is designed to unite adults who are ready to share ideas, swap tips like your favorite secret recipes, and spark new friendships. Our main goal is to help you find your people and form a go-to circle for future activities so you always have a community to turn to.
Location: A spacious house a block from GGP and de Young in Inner Richmond

🎟️ Join & Check-In

Welcome! Here's Your Guide to the Event.

Step 1: Get Started (Check-in begins at 6:30 PM)
When you arrive, please Check-In: just follow the link to complete a quick and easy profile setup on your phone.

Step 2: Meet Your Matches (6:40 PM ~ 7:40 PM)
This is where the fun begins! For the next hour, our app will be your guide. At the start of each new round, it will introduce you to your next one-on-one match. Simply find your partner and enjoy the conversation!

Step 3: Mix & Mingle (7:40 PM+)
Once the one-on-one rounds conclude, the rest of the night is yours to chat with everyone. Feel free to continue a great conversation or introduce yourself to someone new. Please bring a snack or drink to share to help fuel the festivities!

Want to connect with someone? Use the app! It lets you stay in touch without ever revealing your phone number.
37 attendees