What we’re about
Hi everyone, My name's Tor (a Celtic, old English name meaning, gateway, where pagan folk entered into the underworld through trance journey to visit their ancestors). I plan to offer greater Bonding interaction on weekend evenings and Bonding After Work, both events happening twice per month or greater based out of Male Bonding an Intimate Social Group for Gay & Bi Men. My aim is to be as consistent as possible with these pleasurable gatherings for men who love men. Generally, checking frequently for upcoming events will get you on the attending list and off a waitlist in Meetup. Max of 30 men is about the limit for my apartment unit but it's okay to bring up to 2 guests. All attending will pay a suggested donation of $10 or more. We do pay a monthly fee to Meetup to harbor our private men's groups.
Our vision for these casual relaxed intimate all male clothing-optional events are on several quality of life levels:
- making and establishing new connections as well as reinforcing already established friendships.
- a place to enjoy the freedom of social nudism in a friendly, safe, casual and accepting relaxed atmosphere.
- a place for casual CONSENSUAL PLAYFULNESS!
- we are open-minded men of diverse ages, backgrounds and experiences in life. A great place to find and make new male bonds and reunite with buddies you may not have seen for a while.
NOTE: All men attending must be over the age of 21 years, no exceptions. But beyond that we welcome men of all ages over 21, as well as all body types, all ethnic and racial demographics mature men in their later years etc. WE EMBRACE THE DIVERSITY OF MEN through MALE BONDING & CAMARADERIE, friendship, brotherhood and quality of life in a safe consensual and fun atmosphere.
We do not allow disruptive, disrespectful, or unkind behavior or talk towards anyone. But beyond that you are welcome to relax, be yourself and to have a good time and meet new men or connect with old friends.
As always booking early or ahead is always a good idea.
Feel free to message me with any questions you may have.
Of course: The most IMPORTANT RULE is the following of course. This is an adult gathering and NO ONE UNDER 21 years of age will be admitted to this event. So it might not be a bad idea to bring your ID. They will be checked if needed to do so in order to make sure that this rule is being followed. Hopefully, this will not be necessary.
If you end up on the Waitlist or are on the list of attendees and decide to cancel, please cancel from whichever list you're on in a timely manner.
~There will be soft drinks and filtered water provided. Simple snacks of the healthy variety, chips, cut veggies, and dips, and cookies will likely be available.
~ If you want to bring your own alcohol beverages, you're welcome, there's plenty of fridge space.
~ Please don't bring 420. Our apartment complex is a smoke free area and smoking is permitted beyond our fencing and up on the arroyo Only!
(From Jon R's former host guide: If people want to bring an alcoholic beverage that would be fine as I won't be providing those. Beer and wine is fine. Stronger alcoholic beverages are "okay." But as always, disruptive, rude or inconsiderate and disrespectful behavior towards others or towards property will ABSOLUTELY not be tolerated and those who engage in that, whether due to drinking or just poor behavior, will be shown to the door and will be prohibited from returning. My suggestion and preference would be to keep alcoholic beverages to a minimum, but especially )
Updated COVID vaccines/boosters are highly recommended (although verification will not be asked for). We will rely on your integrity, decency and honesty with recent booster Vax! Monkey pox vaccines are also recommended.
I have no pets if this is a concern.
I, "Tor" William Head, the host of this event, is instituting the following standards and rules for these social events that I will be hosting.
- All events will be indoors only at my home.
The event host is instituting the above safety measures for this event. Meetup is not responsible for ensuring, and will not independently verify, that these precautions are followed.
Acceptance of and respect for alternative sexual orientation, gender identity, ethnic and racial identity is imperative and non acceptance of or poor or inappropriate attitudes or behaviors towards others attending will absolutely NOT be tolerated and asked to leave. Remember this is a group that welcomes all adult men (over 21). That of course includes gay and bisexual men, but also can include someone who may identify as "heterosexual" but are interested in exploring their sexuality. However my guess is that this will probably not be common because of the nature of our gatherings. Also transmen will be welcome as well if they are interested, and again,over 21.
The events for this group will be the following:
- Male Only Groups
- Clothing Optional with those attending who are comfortable with social nudism
- Attendees for this social group will be a maximum of 30. (NOTE: You may try and RSVP if it is over the maximum attendance has reached the maximum but you will automatically be put on the waitlist. If you are on the waitlist just check with the attendance list as the date of the event approaches.
Location of the these social groups will be the following:
Arroyo Vista Apts
4201 Bryn Mawr Dr NE
Building "F" Apt 110 (1st level)
Albuquerque, NM 87107
Easy to find w/ GPS. If your GPS turns you into the Salvation Army parking lot, proceed forward down the drive with the sign saying, "NO OUTLET." Drive to the end of the covered parking spots and around to your right to the lot with many open spaces next to the swimming pool. There's no permit parking here, so no one will be towed.
Everyone, please have FUN!
Yours, Tor