
What we’re about
Who we are: We are a fun, inclusive group, rediscovering who we are as middle-aged adults (40 and up), getting out of the house and challenging ourselves to make friends and try new activities. Regardless of your relationship status, you are welcome to come and find connection and friendship with others. This group is for those who find themselves at a crossroads in life—kids moving out of the nest, loss of spouse, or any other reason that leads you to want to find new connections and get outside your comfort zone. We will plan a variety of fun social activities but would also like to focus on giving back to our community with volunteer activities. If you have ideas for activities or volunteer opportunities, please message the group leader or an event organizer.
Who should join: Middle-aged adults (40+) who do not have kids or whose kids are now (mostly) independent AND adults with or without a partner who are looking to extend their social circle and participate in fun, in-person activities with other adults. We expect everyone to treat all group members with respect and compassion, refraining from judgmental comments or discussions (no political, religious, philosophical, etc. debates—there are other local meetup groups for them).
Activity Disclaimer: Please note that this group is focused for those who are middle-aged adults. Please don't expect our activities to accommodate anyone under age 21 (though we may occasionally have such events).
Additional information: we ask that you please have a meetup profile picture that is clear on your face so we know who to be looking for when you join us at events. Thank you! Usually events will be open to RSVP until the event time and for an unlimited number. Occasionally, we will limit number of attendees or close RSVPs early based on event details (need for reservations, location limit, etc.) We ask that you RSVP for anything that interests you — and even bring guests if you would like — but that you please change your RSVP status if you are unable to attend. We also ask that everyone follow any specific guidelines a group leader sets forth in the description of each event (e.g. guest limit, if a certain event is or is not dog or younger child appropriate, etc.) Habitual RSVPers who no-show and anyone not following respectful guidelines outlined here or by group leaders may be removed from the group at leadership discretion.
Art credit: The group cover art is an original watercolor made specifically for this group by JBParsons.
Upcoming events
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Lunch @ O'Blarney's followed by - Free BINGO
O’Blarney’s Irish Pub, 4411 Martin Way E Olympia, WA 98516, Olympia, WA, USGather 'round, me lucky lads and lasses for a hearty lunch (see below for link to menu) at O’Blarney’s Irish Pub and if you’d like, stay for FREE Bingo, and ye're all invited!
🍺 Plan to arrive by 11:30 to place your beverage/food order and chat with other empty nesters before BINGO starts.
⏰ Join us for 5 rollickin' games, startin' at 12:30 pm and going until about 2ish. We'll have a wee 10-minute break between games to catch your breath and wet your whistle.
🏆 Test your luck and compete for some grand prizes that are sure to bring out the leprechaun in ye!
📅 Date: Thursday
🍀 Location: O'Blarney's Irish Pub
🍽️ Menu
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 1 guest for this event.6 attendees
Bunco - Sip and Roll
Starbucks, 1110 College St SE, Lacey, WA, USYou're invited to a co-hosted Bunco dice game at Starbucks. Grab your favorite seasonal drink and join us for a casual game night full of luck, prizes, and good company. No bunco experience is necessary—it's easy to learn, and the partners change every round! (if we don't have enough people to play Bunco we may play a different game)
🔮 Who: Join the fun, and bring your friends!
This event a co-hosted with the Starbucks Meetup Group.
📅 Date: Third Friday each month
🕕 Time: 6:00 p.m. start (arrive early to sign-in & order)
📋Sign-in: Game play numbers may be limited, arrive early to sign-in.
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🎉 What: Win Prizes! Have Fun! More prizes!
🎁 Prizes: If you'd like to donate, wrapped gifts are welcomed for the prize pile!
📍 Location: Starbucks · 1110 College St SE, Lacey, WA 98503
💸No cover charge or admission - but must be a paying customer to hang out at Starbucks.
🍽️ Starbucks favorites - the full menu is available. Hot and cold beverages, breakfast and lunch sandwiches, and a variety of snacks.
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 2 guests for this event.8 attendees
International Championship of Collegiate A Cappella
Tacoma Armory, 1001 S Yakima Ave, Tacoma, WA, USIf your a fan of the Pitch Perfect movies or loved watching Glee on TV then you'll enjoy watching these top a cappella groups from Washington and British Columbia. The groups placing first and second in this event will move on to the Western Semifinals
Date: Saturday, January 24
Time: 7 p.m. (doors open 1 hour before start)
NO ASSIGNED SEATS: Plan to arrive early!
Parking: Downtown Tacoma parking is limited, plan ahead.
Venue: Tacoma Armory
1001 S. Yakima Ave, Suite 1, Tacoma, WA
Tickets/Cost: $43 w/fees, ($34 early bird before 1/15)
Event Background: https://www.varsityvocals.com/news/2026-icca-lineup
West Region Quarterfinal 1:
Saturday, January 24th at Tacoma Armory
Big Bing Theory | Gonzaga University
Eh? Cappella | University of British Columbia
For Good Measure | Western Washington University
Furmata | University of Washington
The Northwest Collective | The University of British Columbia
Pacific Note West | Western Washington University
PLUtonic | Pacific Lutheran University
The Trill Seekers | University of British Columbia Okanagan
Trebled Acaholics | University of British Columbia Okanagan
UW Awaaz | University of Washington
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 5 guests for this event.6 attendees
BANGO - Music Bingo at Lacey EP
Emperor's Palace Lacey, 7321 Martin Way E., OLYMPIA, WA, USThe group had a blast at the last event... it's a dance party - glow stick - karaoke - sing along - friendly competition all in one! Join us for "BANGO" Music Bingo Night. Free to play for customers at this 21 plus event hosted in the bar.
🔮 Theme: TBD
📅 Date: Thursday, Jan. 29
🕕 Time: 6:30 p.m. start
We recommend arriving 30 min early.
📍 Location: Emperor's Palace Lacey
🎁 Prizes to win including a $40 Gift Certificate for Blackout!!
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❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 2 guests for this event.12 attendees
Past events
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