About us
This group is a welcoming community for women in Bellevue looking to build meaningful connections. Whether you’re a longtime local or new to the area, our goal is to create a friendly and supportive environment where members can connect at local spots 💛
Our events are casual and designed to help you meet new people, share experiences, and have a great time. If you enjoy thoughtful conversations, making new friends, and being part of a social community, you’re in the right place! Most of our members are over 30, but we don’t check IDs 😉 We know making friends as an adult can be tough, and we believe in creating opportunities to connect.
Attendance Policy
We understand that life gets busy, but we want to ensure this community remains active and made up of people who genuinely want to be involved.
- Respecting Hosts & Attendees: Our organizers and co-hosts volunteer their time to make these events happen. If you sign up for an event, please be considerate by showing up, engaging, and following group guidelines.
- Inactivity: Members who haven’t attended an event in 3+ months may be removed, but they’re always welcome to rejoin when they’re ready.
- Last-Minute Cancellations: RSVPs close 24 hours before the event to avoid confusion. If you cancel after that, it still counts as a no-show since the spot was reserved. Multiple last-minute cancellations may result in removal from the group.
- No-Shows: If you RSVP “Yes” but don’t attend, it prevents others from taking that spot and affects the event dynamic. Frequent no-shows may result in removal from the group.
We want to create a space where members feel valued and comfortable, and we appreciate everyone’s efforts in making this a vibrant and active community.
No Promotions or Solicitation
This group is a space for genuine social connection, not self-promotion. While it’s completely fine to talk about your work when it comes up naturally in conversation, actively promoting your business, social media, services, or paid groups is not allowed.
Examples of what’s not okay:
- Pushing members to follow your Instagram, subscribe to your content, or join a paid program.
- Handing out business cards or pitching services at events.
- Using the group as a networking or recruiting opportunity.
We want to ensure that everyone feels comfortable and isn’t put in a position where they need to say no to something. Repeated self-promotion may result in removal from the group.
Upcoming events
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Non-Fiction Book Club: Somewhere Else, Some Other Time
Cafe Hagen (Bellevue), 777 108 Ave NE, Bellevue, WA, USJoin us at Café Hagen in Bellevue for a relaxed Non-Fiction Book Club where we explore interesting ideas, share different perspectives, and connect with other curious people.
Each meetup will feature a selected non-fiction book or article(s) and plenty of thoughtful, friendly conversation.
Somewhere Else, Some Other Time
Have you ever thought you might have been happier in another era? Or found yourself daydreaming about living somewhere completely different, returning to a place you once lived, or retiring somewhere far away?
In this meeting, we’ll talk about why other times and places can seem so appealing from a distance. Are we imagining the place itself, or a different version of ourselves living there? Are we overlooking the ordinary difficulties of life elsewhere? And is romanticizing another time or place always a form of escape, or can it tell us something useful about what we’re missing or wanting now?
We’ll read the following two essays and use them as a starting point, but the conversation can go wherever the group takes it.
Nostalgia Reimagined by Felipe De Brigard
On Anticipation by Alain de Botton
Looking forward to seeing you there and hearing your take on the topic!
30 attendees
Past events
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