About us
# PULL UP A CHAIR — START HERE
Whether you’re brand new or a familiar face, this is a quick guide to how we do things.
### BEFORE YOU JUMP IN… THIS IS THE GOOD STUFF
Welcome to Dudes, Dining & Destinations
A social dining group where GAY, BI, and MEN-INTERESTED-IN-MEN come together for:
GOOD FOOD
GOOD CONVERSATION
GOOD VIBES
We’re all about widening our circles, making real-life connections, and exploring the St. Louis area together — one meal at a time.
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## OUR BREAD & BUTTER: DINING OUT
From cozy diners to splurge-worthy spots, we mix it up so everyone feels comfortable and included.
And every now and then, we shake things up with:
- Bowling nights
- Mini golf
- Theater outings
- Festivals and special events
Got an idea? Throw it out there — we love trying new things.
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## EASY TO JOIN — AND YES, YOU CAN DO THE IN-PERSON PART
Joining the group is easy.
Showing up for your first event? Totally normal to feel a little nervous.
Here’s the truth: every single one of us took that same step.
Once you walk in, you’ll quickly see how warm, welcoming, and friendly this group really is.
You’ve got this — and we’ve got you.
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## A FEW THINGS THAT KEEP THE MAGIC WORKING
RSVPs matter
Restaurants prepare based on our numbers.
Plans change? No problem
Just switch your RSVP to “not going.”
Cancel ahead of time if you can
It helps us update the restaurant before the event.
On the waitlist? Don’t panic
Spots often open up as the date gets closer.
Order something and tip well
Let’s stay the group restaurants love to host.
Dress vibe: casual but presentable
Relaxed, comfortable, and event-ready.
Not a hookup scene
We’re here for laughs, conversation, and community — not cruising.
If sparks fly, great — that’s just a bonus.
Zero hate. Zero racism. Zero nonsense
Everyone deserves to feel safe and welcome here.
No smoking at events
Let’s keep the atmosphere fresh for everyone.
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## COME HUNGRY. COME CURIOUS. COME MEET YOUR PEOPLE.
We’re truly glad you found us, and we can’t wait to see you at your next dining adventure.
Pull up a chair.
Grab a fork.
You’re among friends.
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Upcoming events
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Dudes Go Thai
Addie's Thai House, 13441 Olive Blvd, Chesterfield, MO, USDudes Go Thai! 🌈🥢
August can be a hot, muggy month, and that's one reason we decided to add another dining event to the calendar. Sometimes the best way to beat the heat is to get out of the house, enjoy a great meal, and spend time with good company. That's also why you'll see three dining events in August—more opportunities to stay social during these dog days of summer, meet new people, reconnect with familiar faces, and enjoy a few good meals along the way.
And for those of you who are used to a little routine, you'll notice there are now two Saturday events in August. 😊 Addie's Thai House kicks things off!
This time we're heading to Addie's Thai House in Chesterfield, a local favorite known for authentic Thai cuisine and flavors that go far beyond the usual takeout fare.
Now this one is for the more adventurous fellas in the group. Let's be honest—some people see the words "authentic Thai cuisine" or a pair of chopsticks and immediately start looking for the nearest burger. 😄 But if you've heard people talk about Addie's, chances are you've heard about their Pad Thai. It has a reputation for being one of the best in the area and is often the dish people recommend first. Add in curries, noodle dishes, soups, and house specialties, and you've got a restaurant that's earned a loyal following.
You'll also find favorites like Drunken Noodles (Pad Kee Maw), Pad See Ew, Pineapple Fried Rice, Basil Fried Rice, Tom Ka Gai coconut soup, Tom Yum soup, Satay, Thai Dumplings, and a variety of curries and other specialties.
One thing that's always been true about Dudes Dining & Destinations: no matter where the good food is, D-3 will travel! Whether it's a neighborhood diner, a steakhouse, Italian restaurant, roadhouse, or authentic Thai cuisine, we're always looking for great food, good conversation, and new experiences.
This event is for those who enjoy trying something a little different, exploring new flavors, and sharing a meal with a great group of gay and bi men. Adventure doesn't always require a passport—sometimes it just requires a pair of chopsticks.
Menu:
https://addiesthaihouse.com/chesterfield-addie-s-thai-house-food-menu21 attendees
Mad Dogs, Cool Cats & Hungry Dudes: A Sunday Lunch Adventure
Mad Dog and Cat's Restaurant and Bar, 1005 Wolfrum Road, Weldon Spring, MO, USOK you folks out west… YES, we finally have an event by YOU! 🐶🐱
For those of us in South City and the central corridor… yes, we’re heading toward St. Peters. And we’ve done it before! Some of our best Dudes Dining adventures have been a little Sunday road trip — and I promise, this one will be worth the drive.
Mad Dog & Cat’s is exactly the kind of neighborhood gem Dudes Dining & Destinations loves to discover. There aren’t many shortcuts here. Their chicken strips are made in-house, the crab dip is a standout, and their burgers are hand-formed fresh — not some frozen patty.
Soup lovers… listen up! Their French Onion Soup has that rich, savory, old-school flavor that reminds me of the Famous-Barr style, and they’re known for other great soups as well.
The menu goes far beyond comfort food. You’ll find standout pastas like Rigatoni All’Amatriciana and Cajun Chicken Pasta, along with Chicken Marsala, Chicken Artichoke, Jack Daniel’s Pork Chop, fresh seafood, and quality steaks.
Salad and sandwich fans won’t be left out either. From a fresh Strawberry Salad and loaded Italian Salad to a classic Reuben, New York Strip Steak Sandwich, Beef Brisket hoagie, and Cajun Grilled Chicken Sandwich — there’s truly something for everyone.
Looking for a hearty plate? Their dinner specials are a great value:
🥩 10 oz Sirloin
🐟 Fried Walleye
🍗 Chicken Lombardi
—all served with a side salad and dessert. And yes, their Chicken Fried Chicken with mashed potatoes and rich country gravy is pure comfort on a plate!
Even the little details shine — like their signature anchovy-based house dressing packed with old-school flavor.
When we visited, we met the staff, and every single person was warm, welcoming, and genuinely happy to have us there.
And save room for dessert! Bananas Foster and bread pudding are waiting to finish the meal.
Bottom line: come hungry. This is a place where the kitchen still believes in doing things the right way — made-from-scratch touches, generous portions, and hospitality that makes you feel like a regular.
Check out the menu and start planning your meal:
https://maddogandcat.com/food-menu
St. Charles and West County folks — this one is for YOU. The rest of us? Grab your keys… we’re taking a little Sunday drive, and it’s going to be worth it! 🐶🐱24 attendees
Two Spirits, One Big Chief Adventure 🍸🛣️
Big Chief Roadhouse, 17352 Manchester Road, Wildwood, MO, US🛣️🌈 Big Chief Roadhouse — A Route 66 Adventure with a Secret Twist! 🌈🛣️
Join us as we head out to Historic Route 66 in Wildwood for a Saturday night destination filled with history, character, and great food. Established in 1928, Big Chief Roadhouse is one of Missouri’s iconic Route 66 landmarks, blending a rustic historic atmosphere with a fresh take on American comfort food.
The menu has something for everyone — from the famous Toasted Lasagna, a Big Chief signature, to the flavorful Stampede Burger, house-smoked specialties, smoked pork steak, fresh salads, sandwiches, stone-fired pizzas, and other hearty entrées. The prices are reasonable, the portions are satisfying, and the atmosphere is exactly what a Route 66 roadhouse should be.
We will be dining inside the historic roadhouse, enjoying the charm, conversation, and a relaxed Saturday evening together.
But our journey does not end when the dinner plates are cleared...
After our meal, we’ll make our way as a group into the hidden Speakeasy located right on the property for a cocktail, some conversation, and a little Prohibition-era charm.
After all, this is a two-spirited evening — two unique experiences under one historic roof: a legendary Route 66 roadhouse and a secret Speakeasy. 🌈🪶🍸
A historic roadhouse. Great food. A hidden Speakeasy. A little Route 66 nostalgia, a little mystery, and a lot of fun.
Want to explore the menu before we go? Visit Big Chief Roadhouse:
https://www.bigchiefstl.com/26 attendees
Past events
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