DatingSTL

A low-pressure social group for single adults who prefer real-life connection over apps. This isn’t just a “dating event” group — it’s a place for normal, social, independent people to meet, connect, and actually enjoy getting out and doing things. Most members are in their 40s–early 60s, but more than age, this group is about vibe: people who are friendly, self-aware, and show up. While many members come simply to meet good people and enjoy events, this group is intentionally for singles who are open to real connection — whether that turns into friendship, dating, or something more over time.

WHAT TO EXPECT
We host a mix of:
• Hosted events - Organized by a member or organizer (happy hours, activities, themed events)
• Unhosted / pop-up meetups - Simple, low-key gatherings where members sign up and meet—no heavy structure, just show up and connect

Our events are relaxed, social, and built around things people already enjoy doing around STL.
Things you’ll commonly see in our group:
• Patio nights & outdoor dining
• Trivia nights & game nights
• Pickleball & casual sports
• Festivals & seasonal events
• Live music & outdoor concerts
• Farmers markets & local events
• Hiking, walks & nature outings
• Coffee meetups & brunches
• Board games & social mixers
• Outdoor movies & scavenger hunts
• Karaoke, music bingo & themed nights
• Museum events, food trucks & community festivals

WHAT THIS GROUP IS (AND ISN'T)
✔ Social, relaxed, and easy to join
✔ A place to meet both potential partners and great people
✔ Low pressure—no awkward formats or forced interactions
✖ Not a texting group
✖ Not for passive members who never attend
✖ Not a high-drama or high-expectation dating environment

A COUPLE OF SIMPLE EXPECTATIONS

• Be respectful and socially aware
• If you join events, show up (or update your RSVP)
• Meet in person before messaging members directly

BOTTOM LINE
Show up. Be yourself. Connect.

Group Guidelines & Disclaimer
This is a member-driven social group. The organizer is not responsible for individual interactions, outcomes, or arrangements made between members.

By participating, you agree to:

• engage respectfully and appropriately
• attend events at your own discretion
• take personal responsibility for your safety and decisions
• keep your RSVP status accurate. Repeated no-shows or last-minute cancellations may result in removal from the group at any time at the organizer’s discretion.
• Not use this platform for business promotion, solicitation, or recruiting.

This group is intended for socially appropriate, respectful adults. Anyone displaying inappropriate behavior may be removed at the organizer’s discretion. Event photos may occasionally be taken for group use. If you prefer not to be included, simply let the organizer know.