About us
Most people here came on their own.
We built the space we couldn't find — somewhere you can turn up by yourself, say hi first, and meet people without it being weird.
How a Saturday works
From 7:30 until around 9:00, a hosted Conversation Spark gets the room talking — teams, simple challenges, and easy ways into a conversation. It's not a two-minute icebreaker; it's the main event. Hosts welcome people at the door, make introductions, and pull newcomers into conversations.
From 9:00 the structure fades and it becomes an open social. People chat, play, dance, and carry on. Some head to a nearby venue afterwards.
Why people come back
Walking into next week is easier when a few faces already feel familiar. That's the whole idea — you'll recognise people, pick up conversations where you left them, and still meet someone new. A circle doesn't get built in one night. It gets built one Saturday at a time.
The practical bit
Every Saturday evening, central London. Age 25-45. Doors from 7:30 — get there before 10pm.
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What actually happens here
These aren't rules on a wall. This is what the room is like:
Openness — People say hi first. Nobody waits to be approached.
Kindness — Nobody gets left standing on their own for long. Usually someone goes over before a host has to.
Authenticity — You don't need an upgraded version of yourself.
Nobody else brought one.
Respect — When someone isn't interested, that's the end of it.
Inclusivity — The room looks like London. Different backgrounds, ages and accents at every table.
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On messaging — please read this
We're a community, not a dating app.
Zero tolerance for harassment, or for sliding into DMs in a way that makes someone uncomfortable. If you wouldn't say it in person, in front of the group, don't send it privately.
If something feels off at an event or in a message, tell a host or an ambassador. We act on it, and we've removed people for this before.
Discrimination and disrespectful behaviour towards our members aren't tolerated — at events or in messages.
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Become a Balancer
Join the free app: https://onelink.to/balancers
Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/_balancers/
Questions, or want to help organise? Get in touch. See you Saturday 😃
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Attendance is subject to our Code of Conduct and Terms of Service.
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Upcoming events
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Balancers Community Volunteering - Clothing Distribution
Dominion Theatre, 268-269 Tottenham Court Rd, Fitzrovia,, London W1T 7AQ, GBHi Balancers,
We believe community is about more than meeting new people. It's also about showing up for those who need support.
As part of our ongoing partnership with Refugee Community Kitchen, we're inviting you to join us for a different kind of volunteering session.This time, we’re joining Refugee Community Kitchen (RCK) at their Goodge Street service to provide essential clothing to people who need it.
👕 HOW IT WORKS
We’ll meet at 6:00 PM in front of the Dominion Theatre.
From there, we’ll cross the road to Primark and split into small groups. Each group will be given a few essential clothing items to find and buy.
Once we’re done, we’ll walk about 5 minutes to Goodge Street, join the RCK service and distribute the clothing while their team serves food.💷 CHIPPING IN
We’ll collect contributions from the group and use the full amount to buy the clothing that evening.
If you can, bring some cash — but there’s absolutely no pressure to contribute much. Even £1 helps, and you’re just as welcome to volunteer regardless of how much you contribute.💬 Join our Volunteer WhatsApp group for updates and coordination:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/Hzm7P7Tr0QD92MnwmpHTVK?s=cl&p=a&ilr=1🤝 NO EXPERIENCE NEEDED
We’ll explain everything on the day. Just bring yourself and be ready to help.Good to know:
📍 Meet: In front of the Dominion Theatre
⏰ 6:00 PM
👕 Primark is directly across the road
🚶 Goodge Street is around 5 minutes awayAs always, Respect, Kindness and Authenticity come first. We’re there to support people with dignity and without judgment.
Let’s keep showing what our community can do when we act with heart.
See you there 💛30 attendees
Are We Asking Too Much of Relationships?
The Drift, 110 Bishopsgate, City of London, London EC2N 4AY, Reino Unido, london, GBWe're often told to find someone who is our best friend, soulmate, lover, emotional support, adventure partner and lifelong companion.
But is one relationship really meant to fulfil all of those roles?
Introducing Beyond Small Talk, a new Balancers series where each edition explores a different topic, bringing different perspectives around the same table.
For our first edition, we're bringing this question into the real world through a social experiment designed to challenge perspectives and spark honest conversations between people who may see things differently.
We'll explore love, friendship, independence, intimacy, commitment and the different ways people choose to build meaningful relationships.We'll start with one big question and ask everyone where they stand. Then, through a series of intimate, rotating table conversations, you'll meet different people, explore different perspectives and dive into questions designed to take the conversation beyond the usual small talk.
At the end, we'll come back together and ask the same question again: did anyone change their mind?🚨*To make the conversations as interesting as possible, we’d love to keep a good balance of men and women in the room. As Meetup doesn’t give us that flexibility, tickets for this event are available only through the Balancers app (Click here) or our website. If you’d rather not download the app, you can simply book directly here.*🚨
It's not speed dating. There are no right answers. No pressure to overshare.
Just good questions, thoughtful people and an opportunity to see relationships from a different perspective.20 attendees- £8.00
Saturday Social | The Drift | Limited to 150 people
The Drift, 110 Bishopsgate, City of London, London EC2N 4AY, Reino Unido, london, GB🚨 Spoiler alert: We built the space we couldn’t find. A place where you can show up alone, say hi first, and meet new people naturally.
If you’re ready to expand your circle, you’re in the right place.
You can check us out on Instagram 📸🚨Get ready for another Social🎉
Here’s the Plan:
7:30 PM – Conversation Spark
We'll kick off the evening with a fun conversation activity designed to make meeting new people feel natural.
No awkward introductions—just a simple way to get everyone talking from the moment they arrive.
9:00 PM – Your Evening Begins
From here, the evening is yours.
Keep chatting, grab a drink, join a game of Beer Pong, UNO or Giant Jenga, or simply wander around and meet someone new.
Our hosts will be around throughout the night, helping people connect and introducing newcomers.
10:00 PM – Music
As the evening progresses, we'll gradually turn the music up for anyone who feels like dancing, while still keeping plenty of space for conversations.
⚠️ Please note: Entry is not guaranteed after 10:00 PM.
11:30 PM – After Party
For those who aren't ready to call it a night, we'll head to a nearby venue together.
⚠️ Please bring ID if you plan to join the after party.✨ Pro tip
Try to arrive by 7:30 PM to enjoy the full experience.
🔹 Many people come alone. That’s completely normal here.
🔹 Our hosts are on the floor helping people meet and get involved.
🔹 Most attendees join through our app, so the Meetup “Going” list represents only a small portion of the actual crowd.📲 Download our app
You can connect with people you meet, access ticket deals, track rewards and see the photo gallery from the night.
💬 Join our WhatsApp Community
for last-minute updates and reminders.Our pillars are Openness, Respect, Inclusivity, Kindness and Authenticity.
Attendance at this event is subject to our Code of Conduct and Terms of Service. By joining, you may receive emails about Balancers events and community updates. You can unsubscribe at any time.135 attendees 
Park Social 🌳 - Expand Your Circle
Regent's Park Regeants Park London NW1, Chester Road Regent's Park, London NW1 4NR England, Chester Road Regent's Park, London NW1 4NR England, London, GB🚨Spoiler alert: Our events are designed to help you escape your routine and expand your circle. Starting conversations with strangers? That’s the norm. Coming solo? Totally normal. Authenticity is at the heart of what we do—being yourself isn’t just welcomed, it’s celebrated. If none of this resonates with you, our events might not be your vibe.🚨
🌳 Join us in Regent’s Park for a relaxed afternoon of board games, volleyball, team challenges, and easy conversations with a group of friendly people looking to make the most of summer. Whether you come to meet new people or simply enjoy a few hours outdoors, you'll fit right in.
For a sneak peek of what’s in store, check out our Instagram and follow us for all the latest updates. 😃
Here’s the plan:
🕒 16:00 – 16:30: Arrive, settle in, and join us for casual board games and volleyball
⚔️ 17:00 – 18:00: Time for a fun challenge! We’ll divide into teams for a few easy, silly competitions. Prefer to just hang out? Totally cool—you can keep chilling on the sidelines.
🎲 18:00 onwards: Back to board games, volley, and relaxed vibes.Pro tips:
📲 Register on the Balancers app and unlock the full experience.
Download the app to RSVP for the event, collect the golden coins you win in our games, and connect with other attendees after the event.
👉 https://onelink.to/balancers
🧺 Bring snacks and your favourite drink—wine, beer, juice, it’s all welcome.
🎒 Got a board game you love? Bring it!
💬 This is your chance to reset, reconnect, and meet some amazing humans.📍Exact meeting point: https://goo.gl/maps/r2Beg5CeY4vnD8119
🚻 Toilets? 5-min walk away. Easy.
📲 Join our WhatsApp group for updates:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/HYbCWaNidNV9aYK3TW9WGm🌳 Let’s leave the park better than we found it—take your rubbish with you and respect the space.
Remember, our pillars are Respect, Kindness and Authenticity. Let's uphold these together. Any discrimination or disrespectful behaviour towards any of our members will not be tolerated.
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